The Truth is, one who does an atoms weight of evil,will see it. Thats life. If you are fortunate enough to find a man who is of good character and is religiously committed, then you have been blessed with something good. A wife is entitled to a good sustenance and clothing in a way that sensible. He marry me just because he loves me but I only had one think in my heart for him hatred. So when your husband buys you a gift, accept it, rejoice over it, thank him profusely, and use it as often as possible. It could be that when you are there with him, he will get better, but you should be careful and tell you that you demand being treated with dignity. His wife was to me, the woman that I could not be and I will be forever grateful for that. Men are in charge of women by what Allah has given one over the other and what they spend from their wealth. bestowed all these blessings upon you, so what you should do is be grateful So stop being childish and open your eyes . :(. I loved it all. It would be difficult for my husband to provide for multiple wives, both financially and emotionally. Sex in men is projected outside, and in women its hidden deep within. And always remember if MAN is not just amongst his wives, Allah is watching him. 1626. And none of his wives ever complained about anything. A woman who loves her husband and fears losing him. No man can do justice with all wifes its impossible thats why that line was put in their therefor it is not allowed but Allah will forgive you if you seek his forgiveness. Bottom line is this the wife was respectful to him. Whatever you decide to do (leave him or try again), may Allah guide you towards the right path and give you happiness. Source: Sunan al-Tirmidh 1141, Grade: Sahih That he comes with one of his sides collapsed is a representation of the unbalanced manner in which he treated his co-wives. Why do you think men like buying women gifts? Going for Second Marriage: Do I Need Wifes Permission? Dont use any abusive word to express your feelings. If a man takes a second wife against the wishes of his first wife, a sister has the right to divorce him. Sometimes we screw it up and forget our anniversary. May God help you in your situation ameen. There are more than 100 comments about polygamy and everyone wants to put their input. He is weak in Taqwa. I dont know if I should go away, dissappear. Were not perfect. Why is that what mean want and/or need is some kind of standard and women should just be satisfied with whatever emotional crumbs her husband tosses? All he used to do was he was busy in his own world. How can he trust you if you O Allah, this is my division in the case that I am capable of, so do not You reproach me in the case that You are capable, whereas I can not. 2. 5. We have to open our hearts to Allah and be compassionate. This Turning on can be on different levels but its always there, whereas, this kind of attraction in women is nothing as compared to men, so she should be creative in keeping him attracted to herself, and always welcoming to the sexual needs of her husband! You may want to read about Rights of Bride in Islam, Who has two wives then leans to one of the two (unfairly) then he will come on the Day of Judgment in a state next to his side. (Abu Dawud), A man that has an ability of material things and he can be fair to his wives. Id rather get a divorce form my husband than allow him to be married to another person. It seems shes expecting some fatwa & if she is then tough luck, knocking the wrong door. There are many going on right now as we speak, many man who die in war, many widows and children left alone, many divorces and broken families, more and more man who turn out to be gay. Ok.we need to understand that the author is just telling it like it is..men do think about other womenjust as women do other men.it doesnt mean either will act on it. So brothers and sisters before talking about the chances of your husband or yourself getting married again we need to fix and improve our current marriages. Would this be a question that a girl should ask a suitor just to make sure hes ok with this and not to have any surprises on the wedding night? Hindus are more polygamous than Muslims The report of the Committee of The Status of Woman in Islam, published in 1975 mentions on page numbers 66,67 that the percentage of polygamous marriages between the year 1951 -1961 was 5.06 among the Hindus and only 4.31 among the Muslims. 5815. Is Misuse of Polygamy the Main Cause for Divorce? there are many ways a man can help and support other womans without having to marry them and having any relationships. subhan ALLAH. You never know a persons situation until you are in it. I dont understand why man cheat on wife so much. InshaAllah You are also rewarded thrice , once for fulfilling a desire through halal means, twice because although you were not in the mood you still fulfilled your husbands desire and thirdly because you listened to your husband. How can something as superficial as growing a beard be a sign of a better muslim? I wouldnt allow my future husband to marry a 18 never married single gal, but if hes going to marry a widow, a divorced or older lady who couldnt get married, then maybe, maybe we can talk about him getting a second wife. Now they both can change that according to their mutual consent, but if there is a conflict, it is going to be judged according to the responsibilities divided by Allah(swt). Although this dream does not usually mean what is been portrayed in the dream, this could be a result of something which happened in the past finding its way back to our present life. Thank you. Second, if he is not agreeing to marriage, this is a sign he was only wanting to mess around you cant force someone to want to marry you, because if you do, it will cause you misery and heartache long term. It was only a couple of centuries ago that the Church restricted the number of wives to one. Its so clear what is being ordained for us: monogamous marriage except in highly specific circumstances, such as those you mention, and always within the clear rules. They should also be told to be content with one wife and pray more and ask Allah for peace of mind and heart. Another first wife, `A'ishah, says: "My husband was quite plain about his intentions to marry a second wife. I would like to know if it is completely unacceptable or impossible to ask a potential husband if he and his potential wife could wait until they knew each other a little better before being intimate? I think the issue nowadays is women are raised with the idea that men are more perfect than they are, and more like women. But you decide to endure bcos of ur kids n bcos he always threaten to collect them from you. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): who repress anger, and who pardon men; verily, Allaah The fair among wives in Sharia is to equate wives in mabit (overnight / stay), eating, drinking, shelter, and clothing. (Raddul Mukhtar, Ibn Abidin, 3/378), Being fair is not easy. Reality, not being idealistic. Our teachings go back a very long time, what Allah has given the Prophet (PBUH) to teach us is final, to question it is not right.equality is important, and we are taught that. Most of comments are pointing to second marriage and bla bla. Based on this piece, the man just wants a subservient slave who will try to please his dirty need, even his lust for other women, without expecting any reciprocation. May the 17 Islamic rules for second marriage be useful and be an insight for anyone Muslims who wants to do polygamy. but Allah ordered it in quran, the order of allah is justice because islam is full. I have to say shukran and Allah barek feek, you have saved my marriage. If you want a second wife you can go out and get one as long as you know that I will not be here when you come back! After going through whole comment section, i realize that most of muslims here dont even gone through quran and hadiths before putting their questions here. relationship is even more haraam, because it is a transgression against the ________________________________________ Narrated that the Prophet SAW always tried to be fair to his wives. What should I do. 6. Except for those who have believed and done righteous deeds and advised each other to truth and advised each other to patience.Chapter 103, Verse 3 and one who does an atom weight of good will see it. Unfortunately, so many men (most traditional men, not truly religious men) use this as an excuse to be philanderers. Life was very difficult for me and my children and I wasnt young anymore. If she is married, then such a He uttered the divorce words three times in one meeting, then I went back to my parents house. I have updated the question to add this generality. The practice of polygyny continued till Rabbi Gershom ben Yehudah. And its so true toom some times I feel un loved by my husband and I always feel he doesnt share things with me. 4) Your wife doesnt want the stupid car, expensive phone, or giant diamon Ameen. Earlier, there was no restriction even on Hindu men with respect to the number of wives allowed. You men are so full of your selves. During the times of the Prophet (PBUH) this was allowed because of the wars and the widows left without anyone to care for them. alhamdulillah we were blessed with a lill princess.hubby has changed since I gave birth to our bby.he would touched me whenever he want.he loves kids so do I.i thought maybe its because he was tired thats why he refused to sleep with me in 3 to 4 days..after that he would come n touched me again.now I had to undergo an abortion. These cookies track visitors across websites and collect information to provide customized ads. I started feeling he only wants few things from me I must be there with him on bed whenever he wants it I must cook food for him I must do all the household things and inreturn he couldnt console me not financially not mentally n not even emotionally. You have all the right to maintain your self respect and If he still marries another woman without your consent he is destroying your self respect. Many a sister lives her life with a man she never loved but he never knew it. He told me that his first wife knows that he is intending to marry again but that she is obviously not supportive of the idea and that he doesnt know what her reaction will be when he tells her that he had found someone. Just my observation. because the husband might demand sex and the wife would be refusing it due to her fasting. No one is worth that much that you should ruin your happiness over. sis if u r true Muslim then I would deeply advise you to fear ALLAH. Sexual abuse is valid if it is been done by husband. If they do what you hate, beat them with a hard blow and hurt. I am really impressed. Has there been negative history? I love my husband so much that I can not see myself sharing him with another woman. Maasallam! The destiny which almighty Allah has written for you in this life, The test he would put a person to see his or her patience. and trial for her, and if she bears that with patience she will have the Surely if you love your wife you do not do that. Does their feelings dont count anymore? Dont do it, if a man is already thinking of another woman even before marrying you, he obviously cant be all that in love with you, sorry :(. Jazakalla hu khairan. No. husband, then in fact she is praying istikhaarah about wrecking her home and Its a designated duty of the wife to comfort her husband, and protect him for indulging in something unlawful or from being distracted from his own responsibilities. Maintenance for Woman under Muslim Marriage Law The Law of Allah(swt) is complete in every aspect. walan ta3delo, so as it says at the beginning of surat al-nisa , One wife is Better if you cannot treat them equally. 3. My husband married another girl without informing me. Your right to them is that they do not allow anyone you hate to step on your stretch. Here is an explanation of one verse of the Quran. The purpose behind multiplr marriages was to help and sehlter war victims or widows. destroyed your home for his sake? asalamu alaikum, Just because your husband doesnt treat you in the way (you think) the Prophet (pbuh) treated his wives, doesnt mean your husband doesnt love you. Neglecting my children and the business. Wow heres what women expect men to be like. jazakallahu khayr. Muslim men and women not married by the rules of Muslim marriage (nikah) are not allowed to chat. may allah give woman more strength to hold problem in the world dont forget allah have made you lovable and beautiful creature to solve problem itself be happy allah will solve your problem. I will practice , When I get Maried.. Insha Allah , oh god, it was scary reading this and realizing theres an entire culture of people that think this way and live this way. How can he insult me by marrying another woman as if I am not good enough? If the real purpose was of sexual desires then they would go for it in their prime youth. Man and women are psychologically different as well. Or why is polygamy allowed in Islam? It is genuine real life issue and needs to be answered islamically. You give her (your wife) to eat if you eat and give her clothes if you dress. i dream of being able to respect my husband but i must admit over the years i feel that respect i had for him is declining Ive stayed loyal despite our circumstances. you dont have to be a muslim wife to do these just a wife..it goes without sayingmarriage is a commitment for life thats just me personallyy.if you cant ..then dont get married..im a catholic and my fisnce is muslim ..hes s just the same with a non muslim guy.hes a man he has a needs and when you love someone..you will do anything to keep him happy im not even his wife yet and im doing that already. In this article, I explained that women want to know their husbands love them, and men want to know their wives respect them. How can they think they can treat both the wives equally, its easy said than done, its not possible to love the wives the same. (2) The lady is trying to get her daughter married. I am not Muslim, however I respect/support his beliefs and the teachings/love of Allah. 1. Not spending time and money for me. Why should a nice type Muslim sister be patient when her husband is verbally or even physically abusive, emotionally distant, selfish, childish an narcisstic? I could not imagine myself in a plural marriage. Your husband needs to know that youre going to be by his side if: You should be loyal to your husband before everything else except Allah and His Messenger (pbuh). Sister when you said i will never accept this part of islam you could have come out the fold of islam!! This post is general, it doesnt work on husbands who are unfair with their wives. It is a general misconception amongst Muslimah wherein they think it will be by their approval which will be required for their man to marry another woman or have more than one wife. You cannot say Im a muslim but I dont agree to polygamy. At this point, the man has destroyed his relationship with . A wise woman should accept whatever Allaah decrees for her, From the point of view of religion: Probably, it is no longer a secret that Islam strictly forbids men and women to chat, unless they are close relatives of each other, or the marriage between them is forbidden by Shariah. If you are married only for treasure, then you are among the losers. Not to insult, I didnt mean it like that. I would suggest acknowledging the layers of your relationship with him and the in-laws to have a better sense of how to orient your discussions. ALLAH says us many things to do and each an everything for our betterment. Correction can be painful but .. Copyright 2010 - 2017 Pure Matrimony. Man is not allowed to divorce a woman just because she cannot give birth to his son/daughter. Where is their father? I asked, Cant he take care of his own kids? Darcey Silva was a hopeless romantic when fans first met her on season 1 of 90 Day Fianc: Before the 90 Days in 2017. i wont share my husband even after my death. Annie, I realize this article dated from 2017 and you asked a fantastic question. Sister Fatima, a husband is never permitted to force his wife to have sex with him. But there is an entire SURAH! Ep 32 Diff 11 Jan 23, Inde, 2022, 29 min. Very sad to hear this sister. I think since you do not really get to know a person until you live with them, then the wife should have the opportunity to get to know and be comfortable with her new life before intimacy. what I have noticed from the hadith When a man calls his wife to his bed, and she does not respond and he (the husband) spends the night angry with her, the angels curse her until morning. Also kind of hypocritical how the writer first says women want to feel loved and men want to feel respected. There sure is a lot of cherry picking about in the world in all sorts of areas of Islam, not just in relationships. If you are living off her money. After all, as Muslims, we SUBMIT our will to ALLAAHs. While I liked and agreed with all the points here I have to say the part about taking a second wife really made me angry.. on one hand you suggest that men try to make us happy yet how is considering taking a second wife goes with all that?? relationships such as marriage. Broadly, Islam has five categories of Dos and Donts. According to Talmudic law, Abraham had 2 wives, and Solomon had hundreds of wives. These women truly are the best among us, because it is such a hard and difficult thing to do. This cookie is set by GDPR Cookie Consent plugin. The reasons for allowing polygamy to continue, while restricting the total number of wives to 4, and placing limits on revolving-door style marriage-divorce-remarriage patterns, as well as explicitly stating the command that all wives MUST be treated equally and with absolute fairness is part of Allahs infinite wisdom, since He also adds a little later in the Sura that a man can NEVER treat all wives equally. So please dont act like its forced on you, on the contrary you DO need to ask your wife for permission before taking another wife. Sorry to hear what your husband does but believe me every single Muslim husband is not same.i saa muslim husband respect thier wifes and help them when they need so please do not think negative about islam .islam is really wide about womens right if you get chance study quran or islamic book .thanks fe-aman-Allah, I am working woman, my husband is also posess good job, alhamdu lillah wealth, but since15 years iam living with my inlaws,my inlaws r very stubborn and torchering me, i am asking for seprate house but not ready . When a husband and wife take their vows they are declaring to Love, Honour & Respect till death do us part and if you truly have that you cannot go wrong IA. In particular the Hadith. If a man refuses to consider his wifes sexual pleasure, along with being a jerk, he will have to answer to Allah for his neglect The consistent and constant advices to women to be patient when husbands are complete failures is ridiculous and getting really tired in 2016. If a man falls in love with another woman surely it means he never really loved the first? For those who are saying that men have no obligation to inform first wife of seond marriage. y should we share our husband? lets come to nowadays situation, in any country you will see women that are affected for she couldnot get one to marry or she may divorce or widow. JazakAllahukhayran for your comment it was a point well made. The Muslim should not pray istikhaarah about If that happens, each spouse starts to dream of a stable And when he asked me to try threesome, that was it! 2) It clearly says if the man sleeps angry, then she will be cursed. But it must be received and acted upon, no excuses. Definition of Polygamy Polygamy means a system of marriage whereby one person has more than one spouse. I was devastated by his sudden death. I love this. If theres a hadith or not, I am not sure of it. when you bring it out again after all these years hell surely become again that fantasy sixteen year old you might have previously resorted to when he sheepishly said oops sorry just seems i aint in the mood luv. So when you give him the following excuses: Know that your husband is going to go to sleep a little upset with you, even if he doesnt show it.And do this often enough, hes going to start resenting you. There is no Hadith about men please note. How she feels is less valuable than him getting off. The words reverberated through my brain. i) If he feels that his sexual desires may lead him to sins(sex out of marriage and all the things that come with it). Unfortunately this is the pooint most men ignore intentionally or unintentionally. Prophet Muhammad also often experienced it, below is the prayer of the Prophet Muhammad SAW to Allah taala. (i.e. (ii) Mustahab i.e recommended or encouraged, (iv) Makruh i.e not recommended or discouraged. (interpretation of the meaning): Verily, he who fears Allaah with obedience to Him (by But women should not let jealousy make them object to that which Allah has permitted, and they should not try to prevent it; a wife should allow her husband to marry another woman for this is a kind of cooperating in righteousness and piety. Lve ! Marriage and everything within marriage is with mutual agreement!! According to these scriptures one can marry as many as one wishes. Bukhari and Muslim. Here is the complete explanation of hadith below. There is a reason why the majority of inhabitants in Jahhanam are women. second wife will bring a special reward over and above that, for several When I came to know about this that girl got a girl child. I did ask him, dies your wife respect you? Is she loyal to you? you have 2 kids so sex must not be an issue, so why did you cheat? He gives me blatant excuse such as wanting to do something different. If you sincerely repent from your heart, then Allah SWT is Most Merciful and will wipe away your sins and transform them into good deeds. stabbing him in the back by tearing apart his family, so that his home and It doesnt apply to all brothers but these are the things in their mind that most probably they wont tell you about it (seeing the debate going on above, there is good ground why they choose not to tell us) cheers, Im much satisfied by this article it solved my biggest problemjazakallahu khaira, JazakAllahu khairan were happy to know this. In a religion banning intoxication, this is one of very few ways to feel drunk or high. Men may be the bread winners but life is not complete without a wife. May Allah guide us all to the right path.Ameen. Salaam sister, quesrion; you dont rhink we are in times of war? Sometimes you have to be careful in the words you choose when talking about your faith. What a dumb thing to mention. theres a thing called devil n he took the better of my husband n he repeated himself in his act of betreyal.god damn it it hurts.n its all this male mustangs fault.respect,huh!!! no one can add or reduce quran, I appreciate your responses! . In the hadith of Abu Dawud below, it is narrated. As far as the sex thing.the qaran does tell us this.hopefully our husbands are understanding and considerate of our feelings.but it is our obligation ..Overallthis article was very usefuland it helped me understand my husband a little moreas I am a revert from a western culture and my husband is north african.my biggest concern in our marriage has been that he doesnt talk and share with me as much I felt he should. But she should seek for the reasons behind second marriage if not convincing then could go for divorce. Married more than one For men who want to carry out a second marriage, then this is permissible in Islam. Allah is watching and the almighty will give you strength and courage. this guy is focusing on materialistic things to show love, he is so confused. Bukhari and Muslim married to him. Please advise me. The article is sure a nice way of giving a heads up of how many men tend to think like. To the person who wrote this artical.. I am a woman but I know men very good . no you dont , he can married to 4 ladies you can be married to one . It may be possible in exceptional cases of one in ten thousand. 3.If this young man were to get Sister, I would be careful about saying that multiple marriages disgust you. Its NOT more rights which you have over us. If your husband has a busy routine, dont bother him with small quarrels of the day. (second) marriage will make him more chaste and prevent him from doing married, then how can you be sure that he will not fall in love with someone We have been married for 18 years. by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Jaami, no. Moreover, after praying istikhaarah the Muslim should resolve Then I firmly believe that there is absolutely no need for a man to have another wife. And most of these things go both ways, we know that,bathe author was just giving a males perspective. Muslim husbands are very often (not always) reluctant to talk about certain things with their wives. i understand now whyand hope that we can adjust to each other more. Dear questioner! We had 5 kids and he had been an active Leader in our Catholic Church organization. Im living the same exact situation. Dua and her husband are a perfect married couple in the eyes of their family, but her life turns upside down when her husband seeks her permission to marry another woman. 5.Do you expect that trust will He got emotionally attached to this lady. (3) Dispute over marriage between the lady and her husband. Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 5642; Muslim, 2573, from the hadeeth Thank you!!! But we need to understand the spirit of the Islamic ruling first. This is just how it is, in all schools of thought in Islam. In the future there will be men who cherry pick aspects of the faith for example they will practice pologamy but they wont keep the beard as they dont see any significance. Hibbaan: If a woman offers her five daily prayers and fasts her month NOT so men can be pigsthis aspect of Islam has been changed into something disgusting and is something that makes our religion look bad. undoubtedly this is a case of the shaytaan making following one's whims and Totally agree with this..every single detail by sister Kay, This is how I feel,and how every women feels,thank you for writing it so clearly,I would never stay with my husband if he took a second wife,neve ever in a million years,i would rather live alone, That is the problem you cant live a million,youre doomed and my advice to you is to fear Allah and the last day ,the day your feelings will not be considered. Salaam is it haram or halal to give ur husband ahead? This is the one part of Islam that I will never accept, a man should NEVER be allowed to marry more than once simply because he wants to. Some points made in this article are good,but that does not justify being sexist!All men think about having another wife? Firstly, I would like to thank the author of this post for his sharing the knowledge. I know someone who says he loves his wife and yet wants to get married again! However, this is not the only opinion or interpretation of how to do this. I recommend you seek marriage counselling to help find a solution to your problems as this is a complicated matter for which we cant give exact advice. Of course sister if a woman wanted to have sex with her husband & intensionally he refuse it. It does not store any personal data. AstafirAllah. Knowledge of these matters. It is not fair to find a second wife if this second wife does not know he is married, and the first wife does not know he wants other. Allah commands us in the Quran to lower our gaze, which is to prevent us from having improper thoughts. A woman who cannot conceive a child doesnt have to be frigid. I would say some of the sisters plz know the different between yr opinion and the prove of the hathis or the quran, what you think doesnt matter what matter is what allah say. Great article, although I think number 4 needs to go. Do not punish, condemn, and boycott your wives. TO ME WHEN THINGS ARE ALLOWED IN AL QURANTHERE WILL ALWAYS BE A BLESSING IN DISGUISE I am a guy, and for many reasons I have always wanted only one wife. Im in Saudi and not many men do it even though there are a ton of unmarried girls here in Saudi. We use cookies on our website to give you the most relevant experience by remembering your preferences and repeat visits. Even ALLAH Dont force for Pray. 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